Here is a fun way to spruce up your relationship with your writing; handwritten notes! Sometimes, when I'm at home and I feel that I haven't been getting any special time with my husband, and I want to feel close to him, I write him little love notes. I tell him what I miss about him, and even encouraging things, such as: have a great day honey, or something like that, or if I know that he is having a hard time at work, I tell him to hang in there, with a note. I think he likes it, even though sometimes he only smiles, if I'm around when he finds it; I like to hide them in places I know he will have to look. Lol, I feel happy when he is happy. Try it! It just might make you feel the same way.